How to "Fill Up" Silences When Talking to a Woman On Dates...

During a one-on-one outing with a lady, if the entire date is
plagued with silences and "empty spaces"... then I'm sure you know
deep inside that chances of the girl being interested is close to
zero.

It sucks especially if that is the 1ST date.

Because if the first date is just chat... stop... chat... stop...
then often times, a woman will NOT want such boredom to repeat
another time (otherwise known as "NO 2ND DATE").

Let's talk about how do we prevent such an outcome then.

One of the many "hidden weapons" I use to stomp silences on dates
is - Bring up a SCENARIO and talk about it.

The key here is to bring up an incident in life (a scenario),
relate it to the woman and get her thoughts on it...

... And one of the best scenarios comes from - "Other People's
Relationships".

It may be a dramatic relationship issue involving a third party:
Your friends, cousins, colleagues, or some stranger you hardly knew.

Here's how to apply it.

While talking to the woman, when you "detect" an empty space
coming, or a silent pause had just begun, you can just lead
smoothly into a scenario, and break out of a silence by saying to
her:

"Recently, there's something crazy that happened to my
(friend/cousin/old classmate). I'll tell you what happened... and I
bet you're going to shake your head after hearing it."

Then you relate an "Other People's Relationships" Scenario to her.

Let me kick off 3 scenarios to give you some ideas -

Scenario 1) "This female classmate I knew from old schooldays
wanted to audition for Singapore Idol. And her boyfriend threatened
to break up with her because he never liked showbiz... thinking
it's all fake glamour and phony people. So let's say it happened to
you... what will you do if you are her?"


Scenario 2) "It's this old army friend I knew. He liked Jay Chou a
lot and he planned to go to the concert. At first, he wanted his
girlfriend to go with him... but her schedule doesn't allow it. So
in the end, he asked a lady friend to go and guess what? His
girlfriend knew about it, kicked up a fuss and demanded he go to
the concert by himself... not with that lady. So now he's already
bought the tickets and is stuck with an angry girlfriend. What do
you think he should do?"


Scenario 3) "This couple I know had been together for 5 years. They
both have the same "lovers tattoo" on their ankles but lately, the
girl went to enhance the tattoo with extra designs without telling
the guy. When the guy saw it, he was upset and told the girl her
tattoo is no longer something that signify their love... since it
looked different now. The girl then suggest him to enhance his
tattoo to look like hers. But he refused flatly. So... who's right
and who's wrong in this case?"


Once again, rid silence moments by placing a scenario into the
interaction, then get her view on it.

(Conversations will re-generate from there)


In all, the above is just ONE tactic to keep the conversation
going. I have DOZENS more "conversation maintenance" secrets to
ensure every interactions you have with women will be a FLOW
instead of a struggle.

Take care!


With Respect,
Skilldo