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Friday, November 30, 2007

"Dynamo Dating", a Secret Story I Didn't Tell Anyone...

Around 20 days ago, I ran a S'pore 'closed door' event called...


"Dynamo Dating" -
16 Secret "Moves" That Get Ladies Interested In You On Dates...


The seats were sold-out within 72 hours, but the "BEHIND THE
SCENES" story you DON'T know is ---

It was a Sunday morning when my trusted admin guy called to tell me
all seats were filled.

I was actually woken from deep sleep at the point when he rang. And
as I struggle to reach for the handphone by far end of the bedside,
I accidentaly pressed my girlfriend ON HER RIBS with my knee.

It wasn't one of those light presses. With my weight and all, it's
like someone dropped a wrestling move on her.

And trust me, I can't recall the last time I hear a more sharper
scream than that (by the way, she's fine. No bones were broken...
luckily).

Now each time I mention to my girlfriend of that incident, she'll
turn black-faced and looked like she's ready to dig some nails into
me...

Geez...

So for now with all "opps incidents" aside, another "Dynamo Dating"
event is installed. This round, it's happening on Saturday, 8 Dec
2007.

Full details here --> http://www.seductionsingapore.com/dynamodating

This is extrememly useful if you're going out on a date with a
lady (or ladies) currently. Or you may want to equip these
strategies for use in any of your FUTURE dates.

You may not know this but when you attend "Dynamo Dating" till the
half-time break, in case you find the contents unbeneficial, I'll
give you a full refund PLUS an extra S$20.

I've been asked many times the question - "Why?"

Because I totally stand behind the ideas and want you to succeed on
dates.

I know what I'm doing is kinda INSANE, but if you're serious about
having strategies to make your next outing with women more FRUITFUL
than ever, I'll make sure it's going to be worth your while.


With respect,
Skilldo

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

3 Things That Cause Women To "Play Hard To Get"...

From what I experienced, succeeding with women is a process of...

- Place the CONDITIONS that cause attraction in women to happen.
- Remove & don't (unknowingly) put "blocks" that obstruct the
dating process.

One such block is the "hard to get" component in the female's mind.
And often times, it may get triggered unconsciously.

A few things can cause that...


"Hard to Get" Trigger #1: When a guy "chases"

For men who had figured the dating code out, they wonder why other
guys need to "do the chasing".

Instinctively they understand chasing is counter-productive because
the more one chases, the more a woman repels.

So instead of chasing, create "conditions of attraction" with your
projected personality and your dialogue with the girl.

Main thing is to cause her to be INTO you, and NOT treat dating as
"go in for the kill" like what most guys are doing.

Let's face it, when you get a girl to become interested in you,
everything else is a breeze from there... such that NO chasing is
necessary.


"Hard to Get" Trigger #2: Flattering the girl with nice words that
other guys had been telling her all her life

If a lady is good-looking, she KNOWS it. Guys had been telling her
she's "pretty", "sweet", "beautiful" from the time she can breathe
to now.

That accumulates to a point where she 'sums up' all the
compliment-singing guys and categorize them as "just another one of
those guys".

So if one more of such praise comes from a male, it comes as no
surprise to her.

In fact, every single same old compliment will push her "hard to
get" button once.

Say once... push once.

Say another... push one more time.

Note: If you've read so far, realise that "hard to get" is NOT
"impossible to get". But the point here is --- understand certain
things may SEEM helpful, but in actual fact cause obstructions.


"Hard to Get" Trigger #3: Letting the girl know you're into her TOO
SOON

A way to explain this...

Let's say you meet a new friend today.

10 minutes after you've met, he lets you know that he doesn't have
a place to stay and possibly requires you to let him sleep in your
house later.

So now, you go into "alert mode" since you both haven't even
bonded.

You start to view everything he says and every act he makes to
suggest he wants your home as his sleeping bag.

In fact, when he did ask if he can stay over, you counter him with
reasons and excuses why it's a "no"... And he tries again... and
you give another "no"...

Now, back to a dating scenario.

Imagine a guy were to let a girl know he's interested in her on the
first meet, barely before any bond is made.

Then he starts smsing the girl the next day to ask her out...
what's likely to happen?

She's going to do that "hard to get" thing and give reasons why she
cannot go out.

Thing is, some guys think that by telling her early is to "lock her
in". Sadly, that's seldom the case and it works against them.

To conclude: Becoming successful with women may seem
"counter-intuitive" at times. Just like how some men can easily
date fabulous women even though he DON'T have the looks or cash.

For that, I've put up an event that'll have you master all these
"counter-intuitive" concepts which brings you rewarding experiences
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With respect,
Skilldo

Friday, November 23, 2007

Why Impressing A Girl Doesn't Work (and What Does)...

There's an old question that lurks in the mind of guys in Singapore
for decades. And it's still lurking today...

It's the question of - Should a guy "impress the girl" or "attract
the girl"?

Let's define these two...

"Impress" is about a guy convincing the lady with either gifts,
flowers or objects of value. This also involves him showing the
lady effort (usually a huge amount) being put in, with the purpose
of having her feel touched by his actions and develop feelings for
him.

"Attract" is about a guy setting up certain conditions to let the
lady know of the "man qualities" he possess. Combined with that, he
applies knowledge of physical and emotional "know-hows" to guide
the lady to have pleasurable feelings about him, herself and the
entire dating dynamics between them.


Ok, I bet you've heard of different examples where guys got the
girl through these two ways. Some buy stuff for girl and got her,
others focus on having the girl feel irresistably drawn to him and
got her also.


Which one would be a better path to follow?

My view ---

For a long time I cannot believe this... but over the years,
evidences had revealed that when you make a lady become attracted
to you, whether you buy her gifts or not doesn't make a difference.
She'll like you anyhow.

So those guys who bought gifts for girls and got them, it may SEEM
like the gift caused it. BUT NO... the girls actually like them in
the first place already.

As for those dudes who HAVEN'T adequately attract a girl and starts
by impressing her with soft toys or showing the girl how much
effort they put in... are just wasting their time.

True story: One dude tried 'chasing' my female cousin by folding
1000 paper stars and putting all of it into a bottle. He did all he
can, he sacrificed all he can for her.

Eventually, my cousin did not go with him and went with another guy
instead. In her own words - "Any guy can fold paper stars. Any guy
can spend cash to buy presents. But not all guys can make me FEEL
something when I'm with him."

To quote another woman I chatted with last month, she said, "If a
guy showers me with gifts and hopes to impress me, he actually
comes across as trying too hard. If I don't feel anything for him
in the first place, every single gifts he gave is like begging me
to 'change my mind'. But I won't."

Every guy I knew who is a major success with women knows this -- A
guy who concentrates on attracting the girl shows himself as being
comfortable in front of her. He DOESN'T show he's trying too hard.

In fact, the cosyness between him and the girl comes across as
effortless, natural and relaxed. His type of "Gifts" are
invisible... the unseeable gift is giving the women feelings of
"fiery pleasurable emotions" when she's in front of him.

So your main focus must be on "kick-starting" attraction signals in
the lady's mind. That's your starting point.



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Enquiry Line: 6896 6382
Email: attract@seductionsingapore.com
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With respect,
Skilldo

Friday, November 16, 2007

How To Project Strength That APPEALS To Women...

Before I explain the type of "strength" that women like in men, let
me tell you what I USED TO think.

Early on in life when I began socially experimenting around and
interacting with females...

... I (wrongfully) thought by behaving extremely gentlemanly (care
for every detail for the lady) would have them think of me as
pleasant... and may essentially make them think such a guy is
"boyfriend material"...

... Man, that was one of the CRAZIEST mistake that could happen,
because let's just say results were less than ideal.

Now, I have nothing against caring. But there is a difference
between these 2 things -

1) Caring and looking powerless to the gal.
2) Caring but still FIRMLY RETAIN your power.

In the case of 1), it simply means the guy care too much to the
point of being seen as SOFT by ladies.

Say for instance on a date, such a guy would typically ask the girl
where she would like to eat... where she would like to go after
that... is the cafe ok for her and if not she can suggest someplace
else... etc.

At first it may seem he's just being a sensitive male, but truth is
(and you can ask any of the females you know to give their MOST
honest views), this can make the guy look DIRECTIONLESS.

A lady friend once described such an experience to me, she said
"It's like the 'guy' is there on the date but the 'MAN' is missing."

There has to be a "strength" that emits within you during
interactions with women. The strength lies in - you know where to
bring them to. And you know what to do to lead them.

It's definitely ok (more than ok in fact) to set a direction for
the girl to follow.

You know where to go and you can confidently lead her there.

Tell her you feel like having some pasta today, lead her there.
Tell her you know of a cool place that you want to hang out after
dinner.

It's a MASSIVE plus point bcause while other guys she's been out
with seem to be sitting in a 'clueless prison', you appear different
by showing her you are SURE.

Most guys would want to "check with" the lady (for things they
should be leading) because they're afraid that not doing so would
"offend" her.

Yet, the moments when you display strength by showing a woman what
you want to do or where you want to go, she will just weave into
your direction.

Again, some may misunderstand this as being uncaring. NO. You care
and at the same time... you project strength.

By the way, this is NOT about dominating the lady. Instead, it's
showing her you have dominance over yourself.


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Did you know? --- We offer a 100% iron-clad cash refund policy to
your benefit. If you think what you've learned is not valuable,
you'll get EVERY dollar you put in back.

To register, learn more or read about success cases, go here ==>
http://www.seductionsingapore.com/bootcamp/


Enquiry Line: 6896 6382
Email: attract@seductionsingapore.com
__________________________________________________


With respect,
Skilldo

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

How to Keep Getting BETTER With Women...

When it comes to going out with a lady and having a superb time
dating, there's one thing many guys (including me previously)
mistakenly forgot to do.

It's called "Tracking".

Here's what I mean -

Way back, I'd go out with a girl on a date. During the entire
course of the few hours with her, I'd see good responses coming out
of her at various times... there'll also be points of times where
the date hits a lull... there'll be times when she's
enthusiastic... or passive etc.

After the day's done, what did I do?

I'd just go home and return to my usual stuff. That's it.

(As I think back, that was idiotic.)

What should be done instead is-

"Track" the results. Look back into the course of the few hours of
dating and reflect on some of the things that bring out favorable
responses in a girl.

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No man can progressively get better if he doesn't track his results
from the date.
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So here's a "date-analysing" exercise.

After going out with a lady, return home and rip out a piece of
paper or use a notebook (I recommend this, it's your seduction
progress tracker).

Jot down on a page with these words - "What I did right"

Then start listing the things you SAY or DO that creates pleasant
responses from her.

- Recall the topics she kept ENGAGED and talked about with a smile.
Record it.

- Take note of certain times when you said or did something and she
TOUCHES you more. Pen it down.

- If you've tested some attraction tactics on that lady for the
first time, see what worked. Track it.


Once that's done, divide the page in two and write in the second
section with these words - "What can be improved the next time"

If you're meeting the same girl again (or you're going out with a
different lady), some of the things that had worked previously can
be "amplified" and repeated. Your notes are meant to help you see
the entire picture.

*Track the results*... discover those things that work, use it again
and again.

But please note there's NO reason to re-discover everything because
lots of "women-elating" findings had already been dug up, re-tested
and proved to work by me and some of the most powerful Singaporean
daters I mixed with.

So if you're really serious about cutting through all the junk and
go directly into the "lady-dating and attracting" CORE SOURCE,
read the info below and click on the link.

With respect,
Skilldo

Friday, November 9, 2007

2 Crucial GIRL-GETTING Tips...

First thing. Let's do an almost 'kiddy' act here.

Repeat after me...

"Doing anything for the girl won't work if she didn't like you in
the first place."

I stress the idea of - having the girl attracted to you BEFORE
anything else.

Most guys got the sequence messed up by first showering the girl
with soft toys, fine-dining, self-made presents and so on.

Problem is, if the lady didn't like the guy in the first place,
it'll look like he is buying his way through.

Cruel truth I know... but many males have lived through an incident
where they do so much for a gal but a new guy simply pops along and
become her boyfriend within days.

[If that happened to you, lose the baggage, know what doesn't work
and move on.]

Once again... having her massively LIKE you must always be the
"first line of action"... and any competition that comes along the
way won't matter because she wants you already.


Second point: Have you ever gotten courtship advice (from maybe an
uncle) which says, "Know the girl, MAKE FRIENDS with her first and
develop from there"?

Yikes.

My opinion is - the "make friends" part may be taken too heavily by
some males and they end up NOT getting the girl.

Because if you want to bond with the lady in an intimate
relationship, shouldn't you POSITION yourself as a "lover figure"
in her mind, as opposed to a "friend figure"?

If she sees you as a friend figure, she sees you as an everyday
person.
If she sees you as a lover figure, she wants you to be intimate
with her.

Call it anything... lover, mate or boyfriend... but you must create
the environment in her mind to have her view you as potentially a
man she desires to have intimacy with.

Note: The above points to set up attraction and position yourself
as a mate figure in the woman's mind are greatly expanded in a
"closed-door gathering of men" as described below. Read on for the
details.

With respect,
Skilldo