From what I experienced, succeeding with women is a process of...
- Place the CONDITIONS that cause attraction in women to happen.
- Remove & don't (unknowingly) put "blocks" that obstruct the
dating process.
One such block is the "hard to get" component in the female's mind.
And often times, it may get triggered unconsciously.
A few things can cause that...
"Hard to Get" Trigger #1: When a guy "chases"
For men who had figured the dating code out, they wonder why other
guys need to "do the chasing".
Instinctively they understand chasing is counter-productive because
the more one chases, the more a woman repels.
So instead of chasing, create "conditions of attraction" with your
projected personality and your dialogue with the girl.
Main thing is to cause her to be INTO you, and NOT treat dating as
"go in for the kill" like what most guys are doing.
Let's face it, when you get a girl to become interested in you,
everything else is a breeze from there... such that NO chasing is
necessary.
"Hard to Get" Trigger #2: Flattering the girl with nice words that
other guys had been telling her all her life
If a lady is good-looking, she KNOWS it. Guys had been telling her
she's "pretty", "sweet", "beautiful" from the time she can breathe
to now.
That accumulates to a point where she 'sums up' all the
compliment-singing guys and categorize them as "just another one of
those guys".
So if one more of such praise comes from a male, it comes as no
surprise to her.
In fact, every single same old compliment will push her "hard to
get" button once.
Say once... push once.
Say another... push one more time.
Note: If you've read so far, realise that "hard to get" is NOT
"impossible to get". But the point here is --- understand certain
things may SEEM helpful, but in actual fact cause obstructions.
"Hard to Get" Trigger #3: Letting the girl know you're into her TOO
SOON
A way to explain this...
Let's say you meet a new friend today.
10 minutes after you've met, he lets you know that he doesn't have
a place to stay and possibly requires you to let him sleep in your
house later.
So now, you go into "alert mode" since you both haven't even
bonded.
You start to view everything he says and every act he makes to
suggest he wants your home as his sleeping bag.
In fact, when he did ask if he can stay over, you counter him with
reasons and excuses why it's a "no"... And he tries again... and
you give another "no"...
Now, back to a dating scenario.
Imagine a guy were to let a girl know he's interested in her on the
first meet, barely before any bond is made.
Then he starts smsing the girl the next day to ask her out...
what's likely to happen?
She's going to do that "hard to get" thing and give reasons why she
cannot go out.
Thing is, some guys think that by telling her early is to "lock her
in". Sadly, that's seldom the case and it works against them.
To conclude: Becoming successful with women may seem
"counter-intuitive" at times. Just like how some men can easily
date fabulous women even though he DON'T have the looks or cash.
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