What to Do 15 Seconds BEFORE You Approach a Woman...

Here's a brief tale (perhaps you can find it close to what you've
experienced) -

A guy is at a public place and the scene is great for socializing.

He sees a lady who looked friendly to talk to... and he can walk up
anytime now...

... but as that is happening, a "hold back" happens.

He starts to have "THOUGHTS" or a voice in his head calling out
"Wait, this type of girls usually have boyfriends." or "She
probably don't want to talk now."

That thing in his head causes the "Want/ Don't Want" internal
struggle, that ends up with him staying at his same spot rather
than going up to have a conversation.

Then when he went home, he starts thinking "I could have, I should
have, I would have done this...".

The End.

From a bigger view, there are so many times where guys could just
spring into action with an approach, that leads to the woman
chatting.

But it was pulled back ONLY seconds before it can happen...

... because some thought or voice suddenly jumps out in the head.

And every day in Singapore, many approaches on women (that didn't
happen) went unused.

So...

How to reduce this "pull back" that happens in the last moments
before you're ready to approach?

A neat tactic a mentor once taught me, is to make the "Inner
Critic" (the discouraging thoughts or voice in your head) become a
CHARACTER.

(That's right. You're going to take the invisible stuff holding
back your victories with women, and turn it into a character.)

- Give this "Inner Critic" character a name.
- Define how he (may even be a 'she') looked like.
- Know how this "Inner Critic" behave.

Perhaps this "Inner Critic" character is a younger or 'less cool'
version of yourself. Maybe it's not even a human (one of my friend
describes his Inner Critic as a masked creature).

Try to identify yours now. Reason being - you can easily deal with
it in case it springs up again, during critical moments before you
walk up to a cute gal.

As an example, my own Inner Critic is named "Zero". Whenever
Zero tries to critic or discourage me in my mind, I'll mock him
playfully... even to the extend of making him cry.

Do the same with your Inner Critic as well. Slam any discouraging
messages back.

For instance, you're about to walk up and talk to a gal. Your Inner
Critic goes, "Don't do it. She may have a boyfriend."

Then you can TALK BACK to your Inner Critic - "Maybe. But I'd
rather talk to her and find out for myself. You don't have to
approach. I'll be doing it and you can just hide in a hole and
watch."

Or when you're in a bookstore and ready to talk to a gal. The Inner
Critic goes, "Eh, she's looking at books and if you talk to her,
you will disturb her."

Go ahead and shoot back "If I'm disturbing her, that's for her to
tell me. NOT you. So go jerk off somewhere while I'm man enough to
attempt things you don't dare to."

You may choose to be less aggressive. You may not want to "bully",
that's cool. As a suggestion, just take on a HIGHER position and
pin down your Inner Critic from throwing messages that can block you
from meeting women.

Use it. You'll be surprised that when the "Girl-getting mental
foundation" of a man is concrete, the tactics and gambits he used
from there automatically becomes smooth.

That said, I've devoted a full course-work bootcamp (on 26, 27 Jan
2008) where the first thing being touched on is
"mind-strengtheners" that shield you against nervousness or fear of
rejection from women.

When that's established, it is followed by solid tactics to
approach, date and get into a relationship with the type of woman
you want.

Take care!

With Respect,
Skilldo