bonding you have with a woman the next time you're out on a date.
But first, let's 'investigate' what typically goes on during dates
for most of the guys out there.
Usually, a man and a woman's date will involve a lot of 'sitting'.
It's often a restaurant where they sit and chat.
Once they're done, they'll move on to another place, say a cafe and
sit again... repeating the process.
And I haven't even mentioned about watching movies in a cinema...
another 'sitting session'.
There's nothing wrong with 'sit and chat' of course. However, it
is certainly wrong if it's the ONLY type of interactivity a man
ultilizes on the date.
What I'm suggesting is you need to ADD a deeper form of interaction
with women on dates. Other than sitting down, you can move around
with her... you get involved in choosing things with her... you
belong to a little 'own world' with her.
One suggestion is shopping. But hold on, I'm suggesting...
...NOT just plain shopping. There's a difference between 'passive
shopping' and 'active shopping' when you're on a date.
And 'active shopping' is the one that gets you results.
Put it simply, 'passive shopping' is just go to a store with a gal,
look around and get out.
"Active shopping' is when you enter a shop, you toy around with the
stuff inside with your date, you try things on for one another, you
play around... dress things up with her.
You and the lady are INVOLVED.
Eg: Bookstore. Find those horoscope books. Pick one up, hold it
together with her and explore each others' sign. Giggle together at
how real or how phony the things that are written. Then you bring
her to another section with those 'personality test' books and
start quizzing one another.
That is 'active shopping'.
To compare, 'passive shopping' in a bookstore is when you finger
through the rows of books, flip through some and put back, while
she seperately browse her own books... tell me, where's the
male/female involvement?
So, as you can imagine, bookstore is just an example. You can
connect with your date in gift shop, cd store, shoe shop etc. The
idea is still the same...
... which is - When you and a girl are 'active shopping' from place
to place, her body receives signals that she's been to places and
did a lot of things together with you. The amount of connection
between you both is therefore... stronger.
Go ahead and use the suggested activity. And I recommend combining
it with some attraction-loaded strategies which appeal to women
more than other guys can ever dream of. It further rocket-boosts
your attractiveness with her.
Seriously, to attract the type of woman you desire, you cannot be
just like 'one of the guys'. You have to become a man who is
attractivey different than others.
If you like to get all the strategies to achieve that very outcome,
you can check out a bootcamp I'm running on 29, 30 Dec'07.
See it here (Note: 3 places left):
http://www.seductionsingapore
Take care.
With Respect,
Skilldo
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