reading it, it's easy to mistaken me as a person who encourages the
'dark side of human being' to jump out.
That's not my intention but as you may have noticed around you,
there's a 'breed' of man who ladies tend to be attracted to or
stick with...
... he's conventionally called the 'bad boy' or the 'not-so-nice
guy'.
Call such a man whichever way but the fact remains -
Such men with a 'taint of badness' have more desirable female
activity around them.
Let's define first - a bad boy is NOT a bad person.
In the "real-world sense", the word 'bad' when describing a man,
brings up associations of a guy who abuses dogs or holds a bunch of
criminal records.
In the "attraction sense", 'bad' is NOT about nastiness or
ill-doing. It's just a guy who gives women a perceived feeling of
"thrill".
Another way to phrase it (as described to me by a female) is such
men are "naughty in a charming way".
An example: I've a friend who was such a person. We knew each other
in the same leisure group I joined years back, and while he has a
girlfriend of 3 years at that time, he'll receive smses from
different ladies almost every afternoon.
Offers include dinner or pubbing on weekends but apparently he has
to turn down most.
Here's a weird fact: He's not a good looker.
But what differentiates him from other guys is his natural ability
to flirt with women without trying. He teases ALL women (be it
group mates, ordinary lady friends or the auntie who washes
the toilet) and seem to be the happy guy who's unaffected by things.
He didn't even realised this himself... it just comes
automatically.
He'll say stuff that gets laughter out of ladies and while they're
still in the middle of a giggling fit, he'll say to them in a
jokingly stern manner, "Shhhh, quiet. You're a lady ok, stop
laughing like a 5 year old."
With that, he gets smilingly registered as a 'bad boy' by many
females... and they LIKE IT.
And the fact that he admits to girls he's always been naughty since
he was a kid makes it much more inviting.
When all is said, the question you may have is "Do I have to BE a
'bad boy' to attract females?"
Absoultely not.
But you have to understand the 'mechanics' behind such appeal to
women.
In my life, I personally know men who look NOTHING like a 'bad
boy', but they incorporate elements of the bad boy naughty appeal
into interactions with ladies and still attain huge success.
It's all about seeing conversation with females NOT just as
chatting... but seeing it as a process of blasting attraction and
appeal in her mind during the interaction.
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Thanks!
With Respect,
Skilldo
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