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On with this issue...
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Let's Talk About 'Resistance' From Women
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Two men.
One guy can face a situation where a response from a lady is not
positive and he'll feel rejected... even upset.
Another guy can face the SAME thing, yet he feels UNAFFECTED (he
can even grin to himself and feel motivated about the situation).
It's not a quiz or anything, but I'm sure you can guess who among
the two leads a life obtaining more successes with women.
Thing is - A man who has high levels of success with ladies can do
so because of the personal 'CODE OF CONDUCT' he live by.
There are a number of 'code of conduct' and perhaps one of the
first to be embraced is -
Never take it personally when facing resisting or negative
responses from women.
You see - While interacting with gals, doing things right can draw
out smiles and good attraction feelings from women. Yet, it is
unrealistic to think there won't be resistance every time.
Anyone who has talked to and mixed with enough ladies will know
resistance happens in some and not in others.
By that, resistance can mean cold replies or uninterested reactions.
Could a guy possibly did something to cause that?
Maybe, but that doesn't mean he has to blame himself for it (which
by the way, blaming oneself is the deepest form of taking things
personally).
The same time and effort taken to blame oneself can be used to
learn and modify your 'moves' to wear down the lady's resistance.
More importantly, at times, negative responses from gals have
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with you.
A quick self-explanatory example would come in handy here.
Once went to chalet to celebrate a lady friend's return from
overseas. Her own friends from elsewhere were there and vividly,
there was this gal dressed in light blue who was quiet to the max
and doesn't look keen to interact.
Most of that night, she was sitting by herself and occasionally
whipping out her handphone to either sms or play games with it.
She's almost seen as the 'cold zombie' for that night.
Here's where things get interesting...
The chalet was an overnight event. So the next morning while having
breakfast, this cold one suddenly became 'alive' and warm.
I asked her what's the deal about her being like a statue twelve
hours ago versus now.
Her reply?
She doesn't "feel her best" the night before. After waking up, she
felt "more sunny".
Plain and simple.
For the rest of the breakfast, she was talkative (and I mean
VERY)... can't shut her up even if we wanted to.
So as you can see, resistance in a girl at times have nothing to do
with you.
Imagine if a dude were to talk to the girl in the example the night
before and got cold replies. He might just mistaken the situation
and develop self doubt... whereby there's really nothing to
self-doubt at all.
Once again, refer to the 'code of conduct' at the top again. Most
guys 'kill themselves' for nothing... but not those who are
unaffected by women's resistance.
With respect,
Skilldo
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