for decades. And it's still lurking today...
It's the question of - Should a guy "impress the girl" or "attract
the girl"?
Let's define these two...
"Impress" is about a guy convincing the lady with either gifts,
flowers or objects of value. This also involves him showing the
lady effort (usually a huge amount) being put in, with the purpose
of having her feel touched by his actions and develop feelings for
him.
"Attract" is about a guy setting up certain conditions to let the
lady know of the "man qualities" he possess. Combined with that, he
applies knowledge of physical and emotional "know-hows" to guide
the lady to have pleasurable feelings about him, herself and the
entire dating dynamics between them.
Ok, I bet you've heard of different examples where guys got the
girl through these two ways. Some buy stuff for girl and got her,
others focus on having the girl feel irresistably drawn to him and
got her also.
Which one would be a better path to follow?
My view ---
For a long time I cannot believe this... but over the years,
evidences had revealed that when you make a lady become attracted
to you, whether you buy her gifts or not doesn't make a difference.
She'll like you anyhow.
So those guys who bought gifts for girls and got them, it may SEEM
like the gift caused it. BUT NO... the girls actually like them in
the first place already.
As for those dudes who HAVEN'T adequately attract a girl and starts
by impressing her with soft toys or showing the girl how much
effort they put in... are just wasting their time.
True story: One dude tried 'chasing' my female cousin by folding
1000 paper stars and putting all of it into a bottle. He did all he
can, he sacrificed all he can for her.
Eventually, my cousin did not go with him and went with another guy
instead. In her own words - "Any guy can fold paper stars. Any guy
can spend cash to buy presents. But not all guys can make me FEEL
something when I'm with him."
To quote another woman I chatted with last month, she said, "If a
guy showers me with gifts and hopes to impress me, he actually
comes across as trying too hard. If I don't feel anything for him
in the first place, every single gifts he gave is like begging me
to 'change my mind'. But I won't."
Every guy I knew who is a major success with women knows this -- A
guy who concentrates on attracting the girl shows himself as being
comfortable in front of her. He DOESN'T show he's trying too hard.
In fact, the cosyness between him and the girl comes across as
effortless, natural and relaxed. His type of "Gifts" are
invisible... the unseeable gift is giving the women feelings of
"fiery pleasurable emotions" when she's in front of him.
So your main focus must be on "kick-starting" attraction signals in
the lady's mind. That's your starting point.
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