Repeat after me...
"Doing anything for the girl won't work if she didn't like you in
the first place."
I stress the idea of - having the girl attracted to you BEFORE
anything else.
Most guys got the sequence messed up by first showering the girl
with soft toys, fine-dining, self-made presents and so on.
Problem is, if the lady didn't like the guy in the first place,
it'll look like he is buying his way through.
Cruel truth I know... but many males have lived through an incident
where they do so much for a gal but a new guy simply pops along and
become her boyfriend within days.
[If that happened to you, lose the baggage, know what doesn't work
and move on.]
Once again... having her massively LIKE you must always be the
"first line of action"... and any competition that comes along the
way won't matter because she wants you already.
Second point: Have you ever gotten courtship advice (from maybe an
uncle) which says, "Know the girl, MAKE FRIENDS with her first and
develop from there"?
Yikes.
My opinion is - the "make friends" part may be taken too heavily by
some males and they end up NOT getting the girl.
Because if you want to bond with the lady in an intimate
relationship, shouldn't you POSITION yourself as a "lover figure"
in her mind, as opposed to a "friend figure"?
If she sees you as a friend figure, she sees you as an everyday
person.
If she sees you as a lover figure, she wants you to be intimate
with her.
Call it anything... lover, mate or boyfriend... but you must create
the environment in her mind to have her view you as potentially a
man she desires to have intimacy with.
Note: The above points to set up attraction and position yourself
as a mate figure in the woman's mind are greatly expanded in a
"closed-door gathering of men" as described below. Read on for the
details.
With respect,
Skilldo
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