me tell you what I USED TO think.
Early on in life when I began socially experimenting around and
interacting with females...
... I (wrongfully) thought by behaving extremely gentlemanly (care
for every detail for the lady) would have them think of me as
pleasant... and may essentially make them think such a guy is
"boyfriend material"...
... Man, that was one of the CRAZIEST mistake that could happen,
because let's just say results were less than ideal.
Now, I have nothing against caring. But there is a difference
between these 2 things -
1) Caring and looking powerless to the gal.
2) Caring but still FIRMLY RETAIN your power.
In the case of 1), it simply means the guy care too much to the
point of being seen as SOFT by ladies.
Say for instance on a date, such a guy would typically ask the girl
where she would like to eat... where she would like to go after
that... is the cafe ok for her and if not she can suggest someplace
else... etc.
At first it may seem he's just being a sensitive male, but truth is
(and you can ask any of the females you know to give their MOST
honest views), this can make the guy look DIRECTIONLESS.
A lady friend once described such an experience to me, she said
"It's like the 'guy' is there on the date but the 'MAN' is missing."
There has to be a "strength" that emits within you during
interactions with women. The strength lies in - you know where to
bring them to. And you know what to do to lead them.
It's definitely ok (more than ok in fact) to set a direction for
the girl to follow.
You know where to go and you can confidently lead her there.
Tell her you feel like having some pasta today, lead her there.
Tell her you know of a cool place that you want to hang out after
dinner.
It's a MASSIVE plus point bcause while other guys she's been out
with seem to be sitting in a 'clueless prison', you appear different
by showing her you are SURE.
Most guys would want to "check with" the lady (for things they
should be leading) because they're afraid that not doing so would
"offend" her.
Yet, the moments when you display strength by showing a woman what
you want to do or where you want to go, she will just weave into
your direction.
Again, some may misunderstand this as being uncaring. NO. You care
and at the same time... you project strength.
By the way, this is NOT about dominating the lady. Instead, it's
showing her you have dominance over yourself.
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